Thursday, September 1, 2016

Good Vibrations Affiliate

I am so excited to be an affiliate of such an awesome company! Fun goodies at excellent prices! Thank me later! 😘

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Saturday, August 15, 2015

Female Orgasm 101 and Fellatio 101 Classes!

Sexology Parties 
Female Orgasm 101 and Fellatio 101 

I have been promoting and fighting for sex positivity and sex education for awhile now and recently I traveled to San Diego for training to become a licensed Sex Educator, studying under the amazing Dr. Jill McDevitt! I am really excited to be able to bring this useful, fulfilling, and pleasurable knowledge to you! I will be teaching two of her most successful in-home parties: Female Orgasm 101 and Fellatio 101.

Sophia Wallace's "Thunder Clit" Stencil

Female Orgasm 101

75% of women have faked an orgasm. After this workshop- never again! Between the ice breaker game that will have you out of your seats and roaring with laughter, to the goofy demonstration with Nova the Vulva Puppet, from the myth busting section about the lies we've all been told (and still believe) about female orgasm, to the activity that past students say literally changed their life, it's no wonder this is one of the most popular Sexology Parties!

Female Orgasm 101 starring "Nova" the Vulva Puppet! 

 Fellatio 101

This party will help you turn blow jobs into blowfun! Have you ever wondered how to alleviate the gag reflex, how to avoid lockjaw, or if it's best to spit or swallow? Find out the answers to these questions and more! Participants will play games, learn important penis anatomy, and get to practice expert mouth, tongue, lip, and hand techniques on a carrot.

Fellatio 101 starring "Blaze" the penis pillow!

If you're looking for a fun exciting night with friends, family, an unforgettable bachelorette party, or just want to learn everything they didn't teach you at home or school, book a Sexology Party with me! Who said learning can't be fun!

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Sex Ed in this country

Whoa. There is a serious issue in this country when it comes to Sex Education [we knew that]. There isn't even regulations when teaching it, that is so detrimental to many! I can't belive that some of the videos and references are even real! How horrible. Wtfff... Even though this tried to be funny yet educational, they still used "vagina" instead of "vulva" which is very important when discussing Sex Education! Take the time to watch this. Education is power. ☆ This is great!!

Many if not all, Sexologists and Sex Educators have been saying these things for yearssssss! Pay Attention!

"There’s no way we would allow any other academic program to CONSISTENTLY FAIL to prepare students for life after school; and Human Sexuality unlike Calculus is something you ACTUALLY need to know about for the rest of your life!" - John Oliver [And every Sex Educator I know!]

"It's nice when something you've been screaming at the top of your lungs for a decade and everyone ignored is finally, suddenly, magically, touted as a genius when a guy say it in a comedy routine..." - Dr. Jill McDevitt 

Sexual Education is so important for you, your partner(s), and your life! ☆

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Tuesday, July 21, 2015

The Thunder Clit and Sexology Parties!

☆ I haven't written in a while so here are some updates!

Recently I received my "Thunder Clit " Stencils from the amazing Sophia Wallace!  I had so much fun spray painting and making sex positive art work! 

If you aren't familiar with her awesome movement I suggest you Get Familiar! 
Here is an awesome TedTalk video of her speaking, check it out! 

Also I am flying out to San Diego for training and education with the awesome Dr. Jill McDevitt! I will be teaching Female Orgasm 101 and Fellatio 101!  I couldn't be more excited. These are great Sexology Parties full of fun and useful information one can use to enjoy sex, oral sex, and self love! I absolutely love what I do and I can't wait to spread the sex positivity everywhere!

My awesome Vulva Puppet and I 

If you are interested in booking a party email me!

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Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Pittsburgh Pride 2015

 Pride in Pittsburgh! 

This year the Pittsburgh Pride reached a record number of attendees! [110,000] people came out to support and celebrate this community. There were all ages from young children to the elderly that came together for this very important celebration and awareness raising event. There was nothing but LOVE and that's all we need! 

A huge Thank you to Nick Jonas for performing due to the last minute Iggy Azalea drop out. Many protested her performance anyway due to her racist and homophobic statements. Nick is way better anyway! 

Sunday was soo much fun! I am so thankful for the Clarion Women's Rugby team [which I used to play for] for letting me walk with them in the parade! Everyone loved the sex positive shirt "Clit Tits and lots of Hips" which is why I gave so many away! ♡ 

What made the day even more special was being part of a surprise marriage proposal at the end of the parade, it was such an awesome feeling. I cried. They made signs and she said YES. I love seeing LOVE! ♡ Such a great time with awesome humans!

Marriage is not just a heterosexual privilege, it is a human right! Love is Love and I loooove seeing people in Love! ♡ 

Friday, May 22, 2015

Knowledge is Power - The Power of Female Sexuality ♡

I am a huge fan of hers. I am glad she agreed with me! 

Knowledge is power! We really need to understand the power we have, why else has it been hidden from us for so long?! Female sexuality and pleasure have been dismissed for centuries. It has been hidden, erased, and shamed. That needs to stop, there isn't any logic behind it! Our orgasm and pleasure is just as important as our partners. There isn't female sexuality without the clitoris and everyone needs to know and accept that! Women are sexual beings. And that is the way it is supposed to be! We need to learn to be a proud sexual being. If men can "brag" about their dick all day best believe I am going to brag about my clit! Unleash the power! 

It is going to take awhile to unlearn what we have been taught since childhood. We have been taught to be sorry for our actions, they way we dress, whether we wear make up or not, "not being a virgin", having sex with one or more people, why though?! [What makes a dick, the cream of the crop?!] Stop "being sorry"! Never be "sorry" for your sexuality. Never be "sorry" for the way you look or dress. Be you! Love yourself. We as women have to come together. We have to empower, uplift, and motivate our fellow sisters!

If we take the stigma away from certain words, we gain the power... "slut", "whore", "cunt", and "bitch" are just a few. Society and the double standards are ridiculous and sickening. Amber Rose is a perfect example of society and "slut shaming". Knock it off! The same men who attempt to degrade US are the same ones that seek validation trying to chase US. [Crazy huh] If you pay attention to the music, media, TV, and movies this will be made clear. As women we have to stick together and not fall into those traps. Don't support anything that doesn't support you. Also we need to make things clear and educate our children and family. Teach respect.

We are not "pieces of meat", no really, we have been referred to as that! We don't own anyone sex, period. Just because some men can't control themselves doesn't mean that as a woman I have to change the way I live my life. Rape and sexual assault is a HUGE issue in the US and the world. I can't believe the horror stories I hear. My heart goes out to all the victims, including myself. Many rapists never see a day in jail. This needs to change. Immediately. The fact that harassment isn't a compliment and that some men feel untitled to our body, is actually pretty scary! Speak up and educate the people you are around. Everyone needs to wake up! Remember never ever victim blame and always listen! 
I have the Rape Hotline listed in a previous blog if you or anyone you know needs it.

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