Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Exxxotica "The biggest Love and Sex Expo!"


I didn't know what to expect. Was everyone going to be naked? Were they going to be fucking right in front of me?  I mean what comes to mind when you hear "Exxxotica: The biggest love and sex expo" ? My mind was racing. I was excited. 

Walking into the event I saw all different kinds of people,  young and old, male and female, all races, everyone was coming together for their love of sex! How awesome!

To my surprise the event was very professional. The porn stars were beautiful wearing cute lingerie and pasties covering up their lickable nipples. Some had big body guards or an entourage. The adult stars charged for pictures and they had merchandise for sale. Pinky told me I could take a picture with her and grab her ass for $100. 

There were sex toys everywhere. Any and every kind of sexual toy you can think of was there. Sex furniture, dildos, cock rings, whips, chains, lube, mystery pleasure bags, I could go on and on. If you had a question about any toy and which would be right for you the sex toy booth owners were ready to answer. 

In the "Dungeon" They were showing us how to tie up your partner and use pain as a pleasure-filled experience, I will tell you the bondage seminars were amazing. Throughout the day there was multiple seminars to attend about all topics; anal sex and how to make it easier, fellatio and how to deep throat, cunnilingus and how to eat the pussy,   adult stars and how to become one, just to name a few. 

Exxotica had a main stage where shows could be seen from anywhere in the building; the bbw shows, fire and pleasure shows, and couples participating on stage shows were awesome and the crowd seemed to love every minute of them. All to please the audiences sexual mind and desires.

The strippers and porn stars worked hand in hand for the after parties which were unimaginable! Sexiness was everywhere! Everyone was happy and welcoming. I can't wait to go back... I want to have my own booth next year! :)

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Friday, October 10, 2014

Talking SEX with your man.

Recently I have been approached by women wanting to tell their partner that they want to experience more in the bedroom. Many said they don't know how to bring up this topic and don't want to hurt his ego. Listen, communication is key in a relationship. You have to communicate to your partner what and how you want it. 

Ladies, you ARE entitled to an Orgasm just as much as he is. If you are not reaching orgasm during your sexual experience that's a problem. Some men think they know what they are doing, but don't. Not all women are the same. Not all women enjoy the same stimulation. 

If your partner "cums too fast" , "smaller than average", "doesn't have the right motion in the ocean", or "isn't open to try new things" it's time for a talk. All of those things I named above can be worked on. 

When talking to your significant other you don't have to be mean or aggressive about it. Sex is a popular topic and when it may come up bring up the issues you have. Make it fun. Make it educational.  Make it about pleasure for two!

Take matters into your own hands. If you want to add more spice in the bedroom sometimes you just have to "whip it out" such as a great lube, cock ring, small vibe, hand cuffs, or blind fold during your sexual experience that way both parties will already be aroused and will not think so much about it. Or Go on a "sex store" date. Walk around and choose an item or 2 that the both of you can enjoy. Going into a Sex Store is NOT unacceptable or nasty, it is fun, exciting, and entertaining!  I love shopping for fun bedroom items with my man. We both find things that each other would enjoy and we love making each other sexually happy! 

If he "cums too fast" there are multiple exercises that can help him. When he is approaching orgasm STOP whatever you are doing, by stopping a few times  he and the muscles can slow down and not cum as fast. It is proven that it takes women longer than men to reach orgasm. That's where foreplay can come in handy for us women. Foreplay can get us dripping wet and excited making the orgasm easier to reach. So if your partner cums fast, take time for some extra foreplay and stimulation. Be a little selfish. 

If he is "smaller than average" there are a few things that could help improve your sexual experience. When he is inside of the vagina your clitoris is left unattended. Play with her! Either you or your partner can play and stimulate your clitoris making the pleasure intensify! Love the clitoris. Make the only body part that is specifically designed for pleasure a key focal point! 

When I talk about the beloved clitoris I can not forget about oral sex ( cunnilingus ). "Eating pussy" is a craft and it should be perfected. Ladies eat many fruits and she will taste sweet! Teach your man what and how you like to be licked! Whether it be circular,  zigzag, vibrations (humming), or the flick let him know what sends you through the roof! Hey, even spice it up and try 69, where you both receive and give each other oral pleasure.

In a healthy relationship there should be unlimited communication. You and him talk about dinner, work, family and friends... so why not your sex life? If you or your partner brings up the topic of sex don't feel like "your sex isn't good" just know that they are willing and wanting to be open and try new things that will bring your sexual relationship to a whole new level.

Women have been sexually oppressed for years and that needs to change!

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Thursday, September 18, 2014

Anal Sex; Spreading the booty meat.

☆Anal Sex☆

Let's get dirty, I'm talking about butt sex dirty. 
Have you tried it? Do you enjoy it? Have you thought about trying it? What's stopping you?

Now let's spread that booty meat.... 

I was nervous my first time, thinking it was going to hurt a lot or that I would shit myself afterwards. Lol I was wrong. I took control. I knew that my hole was going to be tight and that lube would play a big part in this position. I bought Anal Eaze that helped lubricate the area as well as slightly numb it. He got into his position and stood there. I moved my body back and forth and controlled how much dick went inside of me. Now at first I didn't receive that much pleasure from this, but seeing how much pleasure he was having excited me. Since he was getting a lot of stimulation and pleasure from anal sex, I wanted to figure out how to enjoy it more myself. I found that if you play with your clitoris that your mind doesn't feel pain but pleasure,  and a lot of it. Going slow and rubbing  your clit can make anal sex great sex. 

Let it be known that Anal sex is NOT for everyone. If you want to try anal sex bring it up to your partner and see how they feel about it and go from there. I suggest that if you're interested in anal that you start off slow and with fingers first. Use lube, a lot of lube! The fingers can help you gage whether or not you will enjoy this type of pleasure. Start off with one or two fingers add some lube and slip them in. Anal beads can also be a fun way to start anal sex, they come in all different shapes and sizes for your personal booty pleasure.

Size does matter! I repeat size does matter. Bigger is not aways better in this case. 

Playing with your clit with your hand or a vibrator can add that stimulation that you're craving while in this position. Your nipples are also an erogenous area that can help create more pleasure. Now, don't get me wrong you can get pleasure from anal sex, itself without added stimuli. I've talked to women who can only orgasm when having anal sex.

Anal sex can be fun and open your sexual mind, just be mindful of your partner and talk about this first. 

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

☆Porn☆ Pro vs. Amateur

    Pro vs. Amateur

I did much research for this blog. I watched, I read, and I made my own. Anyway, I wanted opinions from men and women about this "taboo", yet 97 million dollar topic. Today we can view porn with a click of a button.  Hell, sometimes you don't even have to click and it pops up. There's all different types of porn for your viewing pleasure. Lesbian, Anal, Oral, Masturbation, Sex toy usage, bondage, and Squirting are just naming a few! However, the porn that I want to talk about is the professional porn vs. The homemade videos. 

------ "I love porn. Ever since I was 10 and I saw real sex on HBO I've watched porn. To me it's like the perfect sex. Anytime you want it! I like Amateur POV (Point of view) Oral, reverse cowgirl any position but mostly head. Every time I press play it makes me feel like I'm making porn instead of watching porn." - Sent to me from a male amateur  porn supporter. 

I've seen Kim and Ray J's video as well as Mimi and Niko's video among many others. What would you classify those as? Real or Acting? I enjoy "real" porn, when I say "real" I mean seeing the honest pleasure that the participants are receiving. I personally don't enjoy the professional actors because it is too "fake" to me. The woman actress is moaning and screaming before the dick has even entered... really?! Or how about those HUGE well endowed men. Wait... hold on I need to stretch for that one, WHOA . Many times the men look way too big to be "that" pleasureful..  maybe she is just screaming out of pure pain. Lol but to each their own. 

Okay, so you and your partner want to make a home video... first off I recommend you absolutely trust your partner, because I've heard of many home videos being watched my friends or family. Oops. Now there goes a relationship. Secondly, when your filming your own, don't think about it! It wont be natural. Place that camera somewhere and get to business!

--------- ".....for me personally, I like the homemade porn wayyyyy better than I like "scripted" porn. I think a lot of people are leaning that way which is why it's so popular now.  And with technology with camera phones, it's easier than ever to make.  I used to watch scripted porn all the time, now I can't watch it for 5 min without getting turned off.  For me, I like to see everyday people like you and me putting their escapades on camera for voyeurs like me to see.  Lol.  Just knowing that they are real people, no butt injections, no enhanced boobs, just freaks like myself who love sex and get off on having people watch them.  And because the ladies are real, the fantasy becomes even more intense.  I actually feel like I'm with these women sometime.  I'm done with porn actors all together.  They just don't excite me anymore." - Sent to me by another male homemade porn supporter. 

Men and women get turned on by erotica (porn) all the time. Sheesh, I know I do. Porn can be an educational experience.  When my man and I watch it we get excited and discuss wanting to try new sexual things, it is a great conversation starter for those who have a hard time opening up to their partner sexually.  Partners can watch it together and get some sexual ideas in which they want to try in their bedroom, kitchen, shower, or out in public. Go for it. Open up sexually and watch on!

--------- "I can remember the first time I ever enjoyed giving head. Before then, I was giving head only because that's what seemed appropriate. I was imitating what I saw on porn.   For the most part in porn, a woman's pleasure isn't even present.  All the work is geared toward making a man cum. The man cums and the scene ends; end of the porn. To be honest, that's how my sex life was before my husband. Sex was boring.  Sex sucked. I was often too "tired" or had a headache.  Looking back, I can now see my ex's (and myself) were mocking what was seen on porn videos . Not to mention, we were lacking in communication." -  Email, A married woman's perspective. 

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Thursday, June 5, 2014

Now we're getting wet! Squirting Part 2; The Squirt.

The Squirt. 

Now that your familiar with this female phenomenon ( read my last blog!)  I wanted you to read some real life squirting stories and tips for those who want to squirt. I definitely wanted both male and female perspectives on this wet subject.  So now let's get wet...

The first time is unexplainable and most women don't realize that they are squirting. When a woman learns to control this she can control this erotic power.  Practice makes perfect or at least gives you an orgasm in the mean time! Haha A few tricks like learning to connect and relax with your partner is key, also constant G-SPOT stimulation is a must and when you feel the "urge" to pee (which you won't), let it go and bare down and let it flow. Splash. 

It's a mental thing with us women. I believe most women are capable of this phenomenon. My advice is to keep trying! Now wait a minute... our partner has a lot to do with this wet action too. As a woman sometimes we may have to teach our partner what we like to get us to squirt. Take your time and enjoy all the orgasms until you getting there. 

Now I know there are men out there that are Squirt Kings. Lol And I just had to get Mr. Cory Eaux input on this juicy ass topic! MmMmMm ladies, ladies, ladies this is what he said....

"First and foremost, I’m not some female ejaculation expert... I’m just a guy that has noticed a few thing s along the way that contributes to a woman squirting.

Now the first time I made a woman squirt I had to be about 19. Did we know what was happening? No. We did eventually figure it out from a video once we got older. The two ways I’ve seen it happen most frequently comes from two positions. Her on top. Or me on top with her legs pushed all the way back. From what I’ve read up on about the Grafenburg Spot (G Spot) and female orgasms these positions work best for me because of my curve. The G Spot is that rigid fleshy mound if you do a “come here” motion with your finger(s). I’ve also seen it take place from doggy style and oral but I didn’t accomplish that until much later in life.

Now from what I’ve encountered you have 3 basic types of squirters. The Super Soaker. The Rain Maker. The Sprinkler. I’ll explain each a little below.


The  Super Soaker usually squirts from penetration followed by pull out. When the Super Soaker squirts is usually forceful and can travel quite some distance. Kind of like a Cytherea or a Jada Fire. The best position to achieve this with the Super Soaker is man on top with the legs pushed all the way back. Having a Super Soaker riding is also a treat because you’re bound to catch some splashing to the face.


The Rain Maker is always fun. It doesn’t necessarily take penetration for the Rain Maker to squirt. All it takes for her is fir her to be aroused. All it takes it a few taps on the clit to make it flow for the Rain Maker. Also pulling out and repeatedly hitting the clit with the head of the penis with cause gushing from this one. The Rain Maker is also the easiest to make squirt from oral.


The Sprinkler is a site to see! The most difficult to achieve of all the squirters. This one takes some really good timing. I usually have had The Sprinkler climax from being on top and having her leg pushed all the way back. Once you see and feel your partner is about to climax, pull out and rub the tip with a side to side motion vigorously across the clit. The Sprinkler may be the messiest of all the squirts but boy is it a site to behold.

 Now I’m no authority on this. 

These are just some tips from things I’ve picked up. Can a woman be a mixture of these? Of course! Can every woman squirt? I say yes. But it all depends on her comfortability level and if she is willing to let go. Every woman is different. Take you time with her. Get her aroused. Remember it’s mostly mental. I could go on and on but I’ll cut this one short for now. Until next time. "

Ooh are you moist yet! Sheesh. Thank you Mr. Eaux for that squirt knowledge! 

Here are some wet accounts of squirting experiences both male and female. Enjoy and get that bed wet. 

From the beautiful squirter herself, "Miss Rae"- "I was seventeen the first time I ever experienced squirting. At first I didn't understand what my body was doing. I was confused lol. After awhile, I grew to accept it & control it. As weird as I thought being a squirter was I ended up finding beauty in it. My orgasms were ok before but now they are explosive. It's also a man's favorite. Seeing my man's reaction when he makes me cum turns me on sooo much. Seeing how in awe he is over my beautiful mess lol. If you're a squirter too PLEASE do not be ashamed. Yes it's messy but it's well worth it. The tingling sensation in my clitoris and feeling my vagina pulsate while I orgasm feels so good. Then I squirt. Sometimes it's a lot sometimes it's not. Either way the feeling is incredible. I enjoy knowing that I have the ability to make my man lose his mind not just with who I am as a woman but with my body as well. Seeing him enjoy me adds so much fuel to my sexual fire....makes me extra freaky. I love that he loves my pussy squirting all crazy. To all the REAL squirters such as myself embrace it!! We are a rare breed & we definitely have the ability to make any sexual experience more exciting and wetter than ever ;-)"

Sent by "John Doe" - "My first experience of my female partner squirting was while playing with her vibrator we've been sexually active for the past 2 years and I decided that I would buy her a vibrator just to spice up the intimacy so after the oral sex I decided to use the vibrator once I touched her clit she started to jerk with pleasure because the vibration was so overwhelming then her thighs began to shake as she held the vibrator on her clit and I began to thrust her vagina gently with two fingers then all of a sudden she let out this overwhelming moan as her vagina began to leak as if she was urinating kinda had me confused because this was a first for me and her I paused for a quick second and she proceeded to rub her clit as she continued to gush and moan with pleasure I then knew that she was squirting for the first time and it was amazing and know its like a natural thing to use both"

Long live America this is an awesome testimonial from Mr. Ford a man in uniform- "I was at my army annual training. Just got back from a go go bar lol. This girl in my unit was telling me how she wanted my squad leader at the time. Him being the faithful husband that he is declined. She asked me to walk her to her room. She had a nigga fucked up lol. I took her to her door until she started struggling with her keys. I just took her hand and navigated her to the bathroom. We went in the stall and she started topping me off. She takes her shorts off and hangs on the stall like spider woman. Arms over the top and feet pressed against the side. I grab her by the waste and tear her up. Probably 4-5 times *splats* on the floor. I was like damn didn't know you were like that". 

MmMmMm Those are just some wet stories and there's much more wetness where they came from! Now go orgasm and get wet!! 

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Sunday, June 1, 2014

Squirting; The Pre-Squirt.

You know I'm always pro- vagina and there are somethings we don't fully understand like SQUIRTING. Ever complex and still a mystery it is still being studied and experimented with by scientists trying to understand this amazing act of a woman's body. It wasn't until around 1980 that they even started to study squirting. So there has yet much to be discovered.  

Squirting can be seen in thousands of pornos and home movies around the world - talk about turn on, huh-. That wetness everywhere! MmMmMm...That is nothing to be ashamed of embrace it and use it as a sense of erotic powers my fellow squirters. Female ejaculation is messy, definitely messy (a towel is your best friend) but makes for a fun wet time! It is not strange or unusual. Don't be ashamed to wet the bed ladies!

When trying to accomplish this female phenomenon the key components are great stimulation and the ability to let loose, get that G-Spot going! Push down and let it flow. Empower yourself and your partner to do what feels good, natural, and pleasurable. 

For my myth busters this liquid is NOT pee! There has been debate and talk about the chemical make up of this juicy wetness because it passes through the urethral tube, but doesn't a mans? So is he peeing? No. So squirt on ladies. Make it rain! 
My advice for women if they want to but can't is to keep trying, practice makes for some great sexual experiences. Relax and take it all in, no actually let it all out. Splash. 

Ooh just wait for part two.  Testimonials and Tips.

Saturday, April 26, 2014

Pretty Little Pussy.

Pretty Little Pussy. 

Hair. Pubic Hair. Do you shave it, trim it, or let it grow? Men and women all have their different preferences. 

Hair down there can be erotic, it holds the scent of that woman, her pheromones. Pheromones are the natural scent of a clean woman, one of the best sexual turn on's after beauty. No two women smell the same! I hope she smells good, actually it's a MUST that she smells good! A clean pussy is a healthy pussy! Grooming the hair can be fun and fashionable. Some women have even cut shapes, letters, and symbols into their hair. Show me! Lol I'm all about pussy art!  Pubic hair can also excite and stimulate the vagina, simple combing, kissing, twirling, and pulling can move the whole erotic area and possibly cause an orgasm!

Okay... so you shave her. Naked. So soft and smooth. Her pussy lips are bare and exposed. Exciting to the sight and touch. He/She can see the beautiful pussy flower that your lips create. In recent discussions I have found that men and women tend to like eating a pussy that is groomed or shaved completely. No one likes stopping to pull a hair out of their mouth or teeth!  Lol A great wax or shaving cream such as "Coochy Cream" can help get her smooth and lickable! 

Fellas... Now I know some of you like to groom or shave completely.  Trust me, we love that! I know I don't want to have to stop the pleasure just to pull out a hair! Shaving is a two way street. 

For some added intimacy try shaving each other. Whoa. You must have trust here now! This experience can be uneasy at first but trust your partner. It was a huge turn on for me! Take your time and be careful. Hey fellas, the pussy is your first home so take part in the up keep! 

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Time to buy New Sex Toys!

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Saturday, April 5, 2014

Vibrators, Dildos, Sex Toys... Ooh My!!

Vibrators, Dildos, Sex Toys... OOOH MY! 

The fact is that there's such an amazing variety of vibrators and dildos for you to choose from. The size shape and material all vary and can be so overwhelming! Don't get scared!! I know many men (vibrators aren't just for the pussy!) And women who have no idea what they like or where to look...So I have a few questions for you to ask your inner sex god/goddess as well as some sex toy facts...

First, Where do you want to stick it?  Your clit? Your vagina?  Your anus? Your penis? Because anything that vibrates around those sensitive areas feels amazing, orgasmic! Specific toys are made for those different erotic zones. Rabbits,  Bullets, G-Spot vibrators, Anal vibrators, vibrating cock rings, and dildos can all be a good time.

Second,  How strong do you want the vibrations to be, if any?  If you have never used a vibrator then this question is can be hard... my answer is EXPERIMENT! Touch and use different stimulation. Hard. Soft. Up and down. Clockwise. Fast. Slow. Touch her! Hey, the fellas can join in too! ;) But for the ladies and gentlemen that have used these wonderful toys the more powerful vibration is the way to go! Nothing like the new battery feeling!  If you prefer dildos then suction bottoms and harness accessibility is something to consider.

Third, How big do you want it?! Length and width are key when finding the right toy for maximum pleasure. The sizes available range from small coin size to huge... and I mean HUGE! For your first vibe or dildo it's better to go smaller then larger so you know it will fit. Cute little pocket vibes come in small lip stick figures and candy. So you can discreetly get your vibe on! 

Lastly, How much money do you want to give up? Remember,  invest in your pleasure. Sexual health is important! Orgasm is such an important word!! Try out some cheaper smaller ones and work your way up. 

You don't have to be monogamous with your sex toys! They don't get jealous! You can have as many as you like!

 Vibrator,  Dildos, Sex Toys... OOOH MY! 

Monday, March 17, 2014

Head- Lick. Suck. Swallow.

He loves head! Here's some ExxxiteMe tips any woman can do! Plus an exclusive excerpt from an anonymous pro swallower!  ( Whoa. )

》 Lick. Use your tongue as a weapon. You can create multiple sensations with your tongue. There's thousands of sensitive nerve endings in the tip, so grab that shaft and put it in your mouth! Roll and flick that tongue around. His moans will tell you if he likes it. Also, smaller pocket pussy can stimulate and stroke the shaft while you give his tip your undivided attention.
》 Suck. The sucking sensation creates a warm tight pulling feeling so when you pull back make sure that suction is nice and firm. Suck that nut out. 
》Lubrication. The wetter and sloppier it is the better! Spit on it. Make it noisy, we all like that sloppy wet sound! Also products like " Good Head " or " Head Job " can increase your saliva and make for a tasty wet treat for both parties. Yummy. 
》Humming is also a great sensation for him. When mixed with licking ,sucking, and stroking it puts him over the top. Cock rings can add that vibrating feeling when used during head for added stimulation. 

☆☆☆For my fellow swallowers… (Written by an anonymous swallower)-

Now I am not talking about cum, well not just cum, but the dick also.I know this subject makes some women nervous, after all the penis can be intimidating. Please do not let your fear or intimidation prevent you from participating in this very satisfying act for you and your partner. 

There are two types of head givers. One, the person that loves loves LOVES to taste it, have it in their mouth, play with it all day long… NO MATTER who it is attached to. They just love to suck a dick! Now, there is nothing wrong with that, but this leaves some women out there believing if they don’t love it like this person does then they cannot rise to the occasion. I am here to tell you, YOU COULDN’T BE MORE WRONG! I know this because I am head giver type two. I have only done this to a few BUT I am the best that has ever graced their dick with my lips! I love head because my partner loves it. The deeper he gets into my throat, and I swallow all of him, hearing him moan and grabbing my hair gives me great pleasure! I aim to please… You can too!

Deep throat is no easy task for some, but it is a talent that can be learned and mastered. Some women, a lucky few, have been born without a gag reflux (that’s me). It makes it easier to place and keep your partner in the back of your throat and swallow everything! Just because you were not born with this talent doesn’t mean you can’t deep throat. Like all muscles, this muscle can be trained. You can practice on your partner or a sex toy of your choice. Food is not suggested due to not having the appropriate texture or firmness. Whenever you get a chance place him or your toy in the back of your throat, slowly. Over time your reflux will slow and cease to exist.

This is very important to men. Any man who says he doesn’t love a good blow job to include deep throat… I’d be inclined to say he is not being totally honest. Be open with your partner. What turns them on should be important to you and if you don’t know how to do it LEARN! Whatever pleases my partner pleases me. Thinking like this you can never go wrong. 

Now get out there and swallow! 

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Friday, March 7, 2014

The Sexual Cheater.

Why do women cheat? I know there might be a million different reasons but I am talking from a sexual stand point. He won't pull your hair? Smack your ass? Use sex toys? Come on your face? Enjoy a threesome?

Unfortunately, all of the above and that's a damn shame!  Women have come up to me on multiple occasions telling me about this dilemma. They said that their "boyfriend #2" does all the freaky things that her man won't. Whoa, wait a minute... isn't that a little confusing?!  Umm... yea! You and your man should do it all! I should be able to enjoy my man and our sexual escapades to the fullest! Whatever I want and whatever he wants should be done. Same goes for you! Don't hold your partner back sexually, explore them sexually! Pleasure for two baby!

My married women have said that since they got that ring on their finger their man has become less aggressive in bed. No hair pulling or ass smacking. Now there are limits? What?!  Hell no! Fellas, she is yours! Please her and make her think of no one else!

Us, women we fantasize A LOT. While we masturbate, while we have sex, while we are in the shower, even while we sit and think. Our mind is so creative when it comes to sex. All we want is a man to share our freaky desires and fantasies with, whyy is that sooo hard?

Ladies... what would you think if your man came up to you with all of these new sexual ideas? Would you be open and ready to go? Or would you question him all crazy?! I think they are afraid that if they ask for a threesome or want to try a new position or sex toy in the bedroom that you would go crazy, ask all these questions and create problems in your head... but why? Get over your insecurities! He came to YOU and wanted to try these things. Shoot,  if my man wants to try a new sex toy or position I'm all game. "Hey babe, I saw a hand stand position in this porno I was watching, wanna try?" A hand stand?!?! "Whoa, let me stretch for this one" thinking to myself but I assume the position! You never know I you like something until you try it. Needless to say neither of us liked the hand stand lol.

Being sexually open is key to a healthy relationship. Fellas, don't switch up sexually just because you made her your Queen. Listen to her. Her moans will explain it all.

Sunday, March 2, 2014

NEW Sex Toy Reviews!


I've done plenty of reviews for this great vibrator,  the CLITORAL HUMMER! Ladies this powerful multi-speed pleasure machine is great for awakening that clitoris and bringing her out from hiding. This vibrator is hard, smooth and can pin point the your pleasure zone!


Pocket pussies can be a mans best friend! The COCK STROKER is a great male toy! There is not an opening at the end so the suction created feels amazing! The inner ribblets along with some great lube get to stimulate your entire member! Another plus I have noticed is that it is much thicker than some other male toys so it can with stand more action.

☆☆☆Male pocket pussy review from an ExxxiteMe Client!!! ☆☆☆

"As a very sexually active man I've never thought twice about a male masturbator. Until one day I was given a "pocket pussy" as a gift. Not only was I pleased but when my girlfriend and I used the "pocket pussy" . I seen her eyes light up as we got into the rhythm. I never thought a male masturbator could help with my sexual performance as well I give it an A+" - Anonymous

Sunday, February 23, 2014

Let's talk Sex Toys

Okay, so your not familiar with sex toys. Cool. I got you! Sometimes people are hesitant to try sex toys because they have never been exposed to them. There are a million different sex toys to choose from, so I know you can find one that will give you "The Big O". Do some research and read some sex toy reviews. If you enjoy them,
teach your partner how AMAZING and ORGASMIC they can be! Sex toys will NEVER replace the amazing feeling of your partner! They can only make your sexual experience better.

I never used sex toys until I went to college, and Whoa... what was I missing!? The first time I used a vibrator I had to get used to it, and when I did... ORGASM! It was my very first orgasm. I was excited and wanted to learn more. The fact is vibrators help women who have never had an orgasm.

If you have never masturbated or had an orgasm I suggest you try playing with different toys and different types of stimulation, you don't know the pleasure you are missing! If you don't know how to please yourself how do you expect to teach your partner?! "No babe rub and lick her like this" or "No hun, stoke him nice and fast" you won't be able to say these things.

Invest in your pleasure. Ladies, don't be afraid to touch her and bring your clit out from hiding! Vibrators, dildos, bullets, Rabbits, and personal massages can send you to the moon with their powerful vibrations.   Fellas, don't be afraid to whip him out and stoke him! Cock rings, penis pumps, pocket pussies, and a great lube can be a mans best friend!

Sex Toys and Accessories aren't only for individual use. Couples can reach new sexual heights with their partner. Bondage, warming massage oils, whips, strap-ons, vibrating cock rings, and much more can be used to explore each other's sexual desires. Spice it up. Don't get into an orgasmic rut, and make each other nut!