Showing posts from 2015

Sex Ed in this country

Whoa. There is a serious issue in this country when it comes to Sex Education [we knew that]. There isn't even regulations when teaching it, that is so detrimental to many! I can't belive that some of the videos and references are even real! How horrible. Wtfff... Even though this tried to be funny yet educational, they still used "vagina" instead of "vulva" which is very important when discussing Sex Education! Take the time to watch this. Education is power. ☆ This is great!!

Many if not all, Sexologists and Sex Educators have been saying these things for yearssssss! Pay Attention!
"There’s no way we would allow any other academic program to CONSISTENTLY FAIL to prepare students for life after school; and Human Sexuality unlike Calculus is something you ACTUALLY need to know about for the rest of your life!" - John Oliver [And every Sex Educator I know!]

"It's nice when something you've been screaming at the top of your lungs for a …

The Thunder Clit and Sexology Parties!

☆ I haven't written in a while so here are some updates!

Recently I received my "Thunder Clit " Stencils from the amazing Sophia Wallace!  I had so much fun spray painting and making sex positive art work! 

If you aren't familiar with her awesome movement I suggest you Get Familiar!  Here is an awesome TedTalk video of her speaking, check it out! Instagram : @ex.x.xiteme Twitter : @exxxiteme

Pittsburgh Pride 2015

Pride in Pittsburgh! 
This year the Pittsburgh Pride reached a record number of attendees! [110,000] people came out to support and celebrate this community. There were all ages from young children to the elderly that came together for this very important celebration and awareness raising event. There was nothing but LOVE and that's all we need! 

A huge Thank you to Nick Jonas for performing due to the last minute Iggy Azalea drop out. Many protested her performance anyway due to her racist and homophobic statements. Nick is way better anyway! 

Sunday was soo much fun! I am so thankful for the Clarion Women's Rugby team [which I used to play for] for letting me walk with them in the parade! Everyone loved the sex positive shirt "Clit Tits and lots of Hips" which is why I gave so many away! ♡ 

What made the day even more special was being part of a surprise marriage proposal at the end of the parade, it was such an awesome feeling. I cried. They made signs and she said YE…

Knowledge is Power - The Power of Female Sexuality ♡

Knowledge is power! We really need to understand the power we have, why else has it been hidden from us for so long?! Female sexuality and pleasure have been dismissed for centuries. It has been hidden, erased, and shamed. That needs to stop, there isn't any logic behind it! Our orgasm and pleasure is just as important as our partners. There isn't female sexuality without the clitoris and everyone needs to know and accept that! Women are sexual beings. And that is the way it is supposed to be! We need to learn to be a proud sexual being. If men can "brag" about their dick all day best believe I am going to brag about my clit! Unleash the power! 

It is going to take awhile to unlearn what we have been taught since childhood. We have been taught to be sorry for our actions, they way we dress, whether we wear make up or not, "not being a virgin", having sex with one or more people, why though?! [What makes a dick, the cream of the crop?!] Stop "being sorr…

The "How To" on Masturbation for the Ladies.

Masturbation can come easy for some but for others it can be a bit difficult getting in the mood for self pleasure. And that is perfectly fine. There is nothing wrong with an awesome sensual warm up to get you in the mood and your juices going. 

I never knew anything about masturbation my first time, I winged it and failed. It felt good but my mind didn't know what to do, what to think, and I couldn't relax. I had never even had an orgasm so I didn't even know what to think. I didn't get discouraged,  I just took a different route. I took a nice hot shower and then started to read the "Sex Chronicles" by Zane and sheesh did that get my sexual imagination going. I got immediately turned on. So I turned on my vibrator and began. I tried different positions and different vibrator speeds until I found the best pleasure sensation. After a few minutes I had felt something I had never felt before, and I definitely wanted to feel it again. Hello Orgasm and Hurray for …

The Clit is the Shit!

The Clit is the Shit! 

It is CLITORIS AWARENESS WEEK [May 6th through the 12th] so it only seems right to shine some light on this pleasure piece .

This week is dedicated to helping the victims of genial mutilation around the world. Yes, unfortunately in some countries around the world women are required to get their clitoris cut off [Horrible, I know]. Turns my stomach. Donate to Clitoraid if interested in helping this great cause. I can't even imagine living life without one!

I don't want to focus on the negative... We need to give the CLITORIS the shine she deserves! For being the only body part with one sole purpose of PLEASURE she needs to be celebrated! Celebrate her with pride!

The Clitoris can be easily over looked due to it not having any reproductive purpose. Says who?! I believe it has an awesome reproductive purpose, pleasure during the sexual experience for the woman. In high school, my health class or any other class never talked about the clit. Never. Then again the…

Don't hate, Masturbate! ☆ Happy National Masturbation Month!

Don't hate, Masturbate! 

May has come and so should you! May is National Masturbation Month!

Back in 1994 -1995 during Bill Clinton's presidency, Joycelyn Elders was the Surgeon General. She spoke up about sex education and her feelings towards masturbation stating "As per your specific question in regard to masturbation, I think that is something that is a part of human sexuality and it's a part of something that perhaps should be taught. But we've not even taught our children the very basics".  Clinton didn’t like her open minded view on sex education and masturbation. Later that year she was forced to "resign" as the Surgeon General. How ironic coming from a man getting his dick sucked by Monica while married to Hilary. Soo I guess no masturbation for you mister president? 

The well known sex positive, sex goods company Good Vibrations got wind of this and took action. In 1995 they declared May as National Masturbation Month and awesomely enough it …

Collecting Feminine Menstrual Periods.

Getting your period can be a dreaded time of the month but for homeless women that is an understatement. Reading the stories of these women is heartbreaking. That is why I will be putting together baskets and donations of products that will help [pads, tampons, menstrual cups, body wash, and other feminine menstrual products]. Donating all the items to the local Women's shelters in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. 
The last day will be May 22nd. 

If you are interested email me at 

Clit Tits and lots of Hips! [T-shirt]- ExxxiteMe

Sprinkling SEX POSITIVITY and POSITIVE BODY IMAGE everywhere!  I love being a proud CLIT owner with lots of hips! Ladies show your pride! Whoop whoop!  

Email: and I will send you an invoice! 

☆$25 plus all purchases receive a Free sperm keyring! ♡

GYT. Get Yourself Tested.

STD'S affect people of all ages especially young people. You can't tell just by looking at someone if they have one or not. Many have STD'S and don't know it because there isn't any symptoms. The sooner you find out the sooner you can protect yourself and your partner. Preventing, testing for, and treating STD'S is pretty straight forward. Talk to your doctor. Talk to your partner. Don't be ashamed or afraid. Get checked frequently. #exxxiteme

Your sexual health is so important for not only you but your partner and family. I have heard horrible stories about how STD'S can ruin a family or relationship.

》A mother used a washcloth to was her entire body, she had a STD and did not know it. Her young 7 year old daughter used it shortly after her and gave herself her mother's STD which was a parasite! Trichomoniasis.  Sickening!

》A faithful woman was given Genital Warts from her cheating partner. Now she can never have a vaginal birth in fear that she co…

Love Crave - VESPER

Love Crave - Vesper

I follow [ @lovecrave] on Instagram. I was checking out their page when I came across a necklace, but this was no ordinary necklace.  It was simple yet exotic. A stainless steel Vibrator that would hang from my neck... ooh what a conversation piece! I ordered it. 

I was skeptical of how strong the vibrations would be. I am a power queen. High vibes only! Ha This necklace for being small and simple packed a punch. 4 settings low med high and pulsating. Now I will be using this as jewelry more than a sex toy. 

The only thing I would change is the length of the necklace longer. I have big boobs, the vibe gets lost in the goodness if not careful. But other than that I love it! 


Sex in Red [Period love]

Sex in Red.
Sex while menstruating may seem to many as a "Hell No" sex act. However some say a man is not a man until he has "gotten some blood on his sword" Haha 

There are both pros and cons to having sex while on your period however the pros outweigh the cons! Whoop whoop for more sex! 

When mother nature comes knocking on my door, I used to get upset and depressed,  thinking it was dirty and very unattractive but as I gained knowledge I changed my way of thinking. It is natural for a woman, it is apart of the beauty and essence of that woman, that Queen. I am proud to be a woman and I embrace everything that comes with it.  Which is sex on my period...

I have run into mixed feelings about it from men and women. Some are all for it and some thinking it's an absolute "Hell No". But many women said they get increasingly hornier when they are on their period, I agree. I wanted to know why... your sex drive increase due to the hormone changes. The changes …

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Stay Fresh My Friends ☆

A clean dick is a must. A clean pussy is a must.
Now that we got that out of the way, Hygiene is so important. No one wants to get all hot and heavy and smell something that instantly ruins the mood. When I am about to give a blow job, suck dick, or whatever you call it, if I smell something nasty, game over for you buddy! Shower. Clean up. Have some respect for the person about to give you an amazing orgasm! Ladies, when you know you're about to get some face all in it, tongue swirling head... Clean her! Make her fresh and tasty... you know... finger lickin good! 

Your nose is one of the most powerful sex organs! Smells can turn a person on! I know when a man/woman walks by and I smell some awesome goodness, she tingles a little. Haha 

Cleaning the ever so picky pussy with a mild soap and warm water is the healthiest way to go. If she continues to have a horrible odor,  I suggest you get her checked out immediately. Ladies, be a proud owner of your vagina and take care of the power y…