Sunday, February 8, 2015

Love Crave - VESPER

Love Crave - Vesper

I follow [ @lovecrave] on Instagram. I was checking out their page when I came across a necklace, but this was no ordinary necklace.  It was simple yet exotic. A stainless steel Vibrator that would hang from my neck... ooh what a conversation piece! I ordered it. 

I was skeptical of how strong the vibrations would be. I am a power queen. High vibes only! Ha This necklace for being small and simple packed a punch. 4 settings low med high and pulsating. Now I will be using this as jewelry more than a sex toy. 

The only thing I would change is the length of the necklace longer. I have big boobs, the vibe gets lost in the goodness if not careful. But other than that I love it! 


Sex in Red [Period love]

Sex in Red.

Sex while menstruating may seem to many as a "Hell No" sex act. However some say a man is not a man until he has "gotten some blood on his sword" Haha 

There are both pros and cons to having sex while on your period however the pros outweigh the cons! Whoop whoop for more sex! 

When mother nature comes knocking on my door, I used to get upset and depressed,  thinking it was dirty and very unattractive but as I gained knowledge I changed my way of thinking. It is natural for a woman, it is apart of the beauty and essence of that woman, that Queen. I am proud to be a woman and I embrace everything that comes with it.  Which is sex on my period...

I have run into mixed feelings about it from men and women. Some are all for it and some thinking it's an absolute "Hell No". But many women said they get increasingly hornier when they are on their period, I agree. I wanted to know why... your sex drive increase due to the hormone changes. The changes in hormones during your period increase the cravings for sex and enjoyment of sex, so we are uber sexually sensitive!


Being super sexually sensitive increases your want for sex and the enjoyment out of it. 
Orgasms believe it or not can shorten your period! Hell yeah! ORGASM ORGASM ORGASM! The muscle spams from the orgasm squeeze and force out the blood faster which shorten the duration of your period and also help your period cramps. No one likes cramps or a long period! These orgasms release endorphins and other feel good hormones that better your mood as well!  So if you're feeling down, bust one!

There is more lubrication [obviously]. Many have said that natural lubrication is not enough but you won’t have that problem with this when a woman is on her period. This increased lubrication makes the sex better for both involved. The wetter the better! 


It is a mental thing. Many get grossed out by blood [which is natural] but if you can get over that fact it will be worth it. It washes off. Duh.
This type of sex is very messy so put a towel underneath where all the action will take place or have tissues handy. Avoid "riding" gravity is not your friend right now, the missionary position is best. Period sex in the shower would be best due to the minimal clean up that would necessary. 
Still continue to use the birth control and protection methods you use, HIV and other STD'S travel in blood. 

Now oral sex is a different story. That can be a messy topic haha it is a 100% personal choice. I suggest not on your heavy flow days. 

Regardless of your period,  I suggest you Orgasm a lot when on! ♡ If your partner says "No" your toy will never let you down! Xoxo

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